My road to the land of therapy was rather winding, took some time and includedseveral detours. My first love is languages and the power of words. My first postgraduate job was lecturing in the Department of Languages and Communication atthe Vaal University of Technology. During my time at VUT I realised a passion forresearch. Through tutorship, influence and encouragement of amazing colleaguesand friends I was persuaded to apply for admission to the selection process forClinical Psychology at NWU. That was 20 years ago. What a journey it has been!Following the completion of my Masters’ at NWU, I worked for the Department ofMental Health in the Vaal Triangle before I ventured into private Practice.

But no amount of training or academic expertise could truly prepare one for theimmense responsibility and the intensity required for and involvement in thetherapeutic process. As one of my lecturers, Prof. Wynand du Plessis, said:“Remember Jacques, during therapy a holy space is created. Venture slowly, treadgently and always remember your humanity.” Those words have remained my guideand summarize my approach to therapy. Thanks Prof!

On a personal note: I’m a father of three very active boys and married to a bossy redhead. I love to read, write, drink red wine and eat lekker food. I also love to run(especially trial runs) and spending time with friends and family.

In conclusion, a quote that is dear to me: “Be happy in the moment, that’s enough.Each moment is all we need, not more.” Mother Teresa